If you are the shy type, talking to your crush can be intimidating, but there are ways you can talk with your crush without feeling awkward and get them to pay you attention. Confidence is important if you must win the heart of your crush.Here are some ways to over come your shyness when talking to your crush.
Here are some ways to over come your shyness when talking to your crush.
1. Show confidence…even if you are shy:in your thoughts, try to think confidence, it will help you feel confident. Fake it till you make it…even if you don’t actually feel it. try to think about who you are, who your kind of kind of person is, your strengths and why people like you. If your crush likes you the way you are, they will accept you. Excude confidence, even if you have to fake it. walk straight, and be proud of who you are.
2. When talking to your crush, avoid pretence: if you have to pretend and put up an act everytime you see your crush, you might someday end up embarrasing yourself. Besides, pretending can be very tiring. Just try to be yourself. Do not be ashamed of yourself. Try to stand out!
3. Give good compliments: if you are nervous about what to say, you can start conversation with simple words and sentences. A simple greeting, a soft smile, an eye contact is also very vital when starting a converstaion with your crush. Girls like compliments, if you are crushing on a girl, give her good compliments on her abilities. Maybe she did something at an event you attended, compliment her. Show interest in her person, rather than on her body. If you are crushing on a guy, you could compliment on his looks and outfits. Compliment on his abilities, especially if he did something nice that you are a witness of…like maybe he played a football game, you can tell him how great he played.. Complimenting your crush, will boost their ego and they will in turn, pay you attention.
EmoticonEmoticon